everyone forms opinions about others; social cognition is as natural as breathing.
yet what i’ve learned about human nature is that we overweigh evidence available to us and underweigh evidence not available to us.
that’s reasonable; how can you make sense of what is not known to you?
but this is all much ado about nothing — my conclusion stands.
i do not need to be explained or understood; what i need is to be accepted as i am.